Sweet Spot Sadness

 

Its so weird to be looking forward and realizing won't be in person sessioning with real clients until Spring. This will make it a year "off work" (no one with dog rescue is really ever off work and I am doing on line things but it's not the client table work touch sessions). 

 

When I stepped onto the cruise ship last March, I had no idea we would be stepping off to a world where I wouldn't be in my studio doing sessions EVER again.

My clients are all such real people to me, every person I worked with unique and I am just really really starting to understand that those sessions will never happen again there. 

 

All the physical things, where the oil is placed: which lights, which sheets on the table, which candles and music each person likes, Their pacing, what we talk about, where their muscles need work, how they decompress. What their favorite drinks and snacks are. What they love me to greet them wearing. The us, the timing the breathing.

 

All of this will never happen again in that space.

Some people will come "back" when my new studio opens. But it will never be this work, these sessions, the feel of this sanctuary...

The sheer magnitude of a whole year. and NEVER reentering that space to "work" is daunting.

I had plans on how I was going to make every single last session memorable. I need to shift those to how to make each new studio warming session stellar, and I will, it's just a bit big to look at right now from here.

It's not time for boom booms - BE SAFE - this is killing me. Covid and the risks right now............

July 2nd

My clients, friends and poly peeps are taking risks that are breaking my heart. it just isn't safe yet. more people are moving around from more places. it is LESS safe now than when we got home from the cruise in March and people are running headlong the other direction.

I don't want anyone I care about to die. or hospital. I am struggling with not wanting to tell adults what to do and wanting to scream at people. it. only. takes. one. person to guess wrong.

I feel the same about my poly friends starting to open out beyond their household. it. only take ones person. there is no condom for this and it doesn't just affect your private gem/junks. this can kill people without them touching you.

masks help but are only partially safer. you spread before you know just like herpes. people don't understand about virus transmission... this. isn't. safe. yet. think of it like safe sex: there is no 100% such thing, there is risky and a safer but not safe. also, people lie. this is why poly people don't fluid bond til after testing and willingness to trust their lives to one another - if you are sharing air drops you are now, with this bug; fluid bonding.

this is bottom line: if you are breathing another persons air or sucking spit you are only as safe as their last test + 14 days. period. until there is a vaccine - once there is a vaccine and reliable testing, then you can make educated choices about who to get squishy with.

until then just ... wait. squish with those you are already hunkered with.

as a touch person I GET IT. but there isn't a massage out there or a sexxin worth dying for.

my heart can't take this. its only a few more weeks til we see where the numbers land after the 4th.

CNN's Take on Return to work

Very thoughtful and detailed article....


https://www.cnn.com/2020/05/24/us/sex-workers-coronavirus-intl/index.html

Back to Ananda: When and How?

When to come back,


I am sooooooooooooooo ready to be back to Ananda time and my studio.


I am waiting on two things.


First, the stay at home order for our local area, I keep up on this daily. Being able to get to the studio is an important part of …. Being at the studio.


The second is the sticky part, the medical piece for safety. As the gatekeeper of all who cross my threshold, the one who holds the baton for keeping us all safe, I am beholden to find ways to make sure, as sure as possible that any touch given and taken on my watch and by my hand is the touch of healing, caring and do no harm-ing.


I am scouring the inter- webs daily for info on how to safely get to being able to work again....


So many of my clients have active traveling lives, and are from so many parts of the country and even world travelers ..... It isn’t practical to trace people forever for each session. The first week back wouldn’t be so hard since we’ve all been homebound (theoretically) but some of us have still been out working, some people are their household’s link to the outside world for shopping, some people haven’t stayed home. As we get back to regular life risks will go up and it isn’t humanly possible to trace every person for every possible point of contact for every session date.


Social distancing doesn't work with body work and human closeness…. so I am looking and looking for things that will allow me to get back up close and personal and not die of the death or pass any deathness or long term health problems to anyone.


This bug, even if you recover, can leave permanent systemic damage to organs and immune system. It isn’t like a cold that you are miserable and can say - WOW! That table time was worth it, I can deal with some sniffles. This bug can leave a person permanently impaired.


So I research daily... & if anyone sees /learns something before I see it - link me! I don't think there is anything yet that I have missed but I would love to be wrong!


I am keeping an eye out for real time, point of service, short wait-for results; like 5-10 minutes to show if someone has the bugga... and then will work towards finding a way to get those tests, make them affordable to build into session rates…without breaking the bank (we need something that isn’t hundreds of $)


Basically I need an affordable, real time covid test that processes as quickly as an at home preggers pee strip to be able to work again, before vaccines and while we are waiting for cures that really work.


Nothing in life is totally risk free but if I get this I would go down hard - asthma, hashimotos, prednisone, general immunicrapola… I have the trifecta of things that would go boom if exposed.


I want to work, but prefer to be alive while I do the working. If anyone sees info about this type of testing being reliable and available for people to buy vs going to hospital/that type of thing LINK me and LOOP me in!


Here’s hoping that this type of testing availability coincides with perhaps a June end to stay at home and we can all come out and play.

What I miss most ... A thoughful question from a thoughtful friend

A few days ago when this was all starting to unfold, the impact that is of how this Covid is impacting my very in person work


One of my favorite friends whom I have known as Ananda for years and I were communicating online (safely socially distanced) a few days ago about the social distancing and how it’s impacted our ability to spend in person social and skin time.


He asked me the best question ever and one I have been cogitating on over coffee, while walking my pups and as I adjust to missing my studio time.


He asked what I miss most while being shut down, other than of course the money.


Wow.


What an amazing question. Straight to the heart.


I am so so so very fortunate. 14 years and gaining into a career that I chose thoughtfully and with the support of friends and family.


I went into the sensual arts as a healer who also loves to dive deep into the experience.


I went into this career wholeheartedly after two years of learning, interviewing other ladies in the field, reading, asking questions and getting centered in what I wanted to offer.


I still have several clients whom I met my very first month as Ananda Healer.


So for me, being asked this question gave me the answer so loud and clear in my heart and mind that it knocked me over.


What do I miss most?


I miss the specific people.


I miss the unique conversations and flow I have created with each of my long term “regulars” . I miss knowing what they like to drink, their specific way of saying hi and greetings. I miss their smiles. I miss knowing when I have found a style of clothing, or a hair or makeup thing, or not wearing makeup that it is just right for them, specifically.


I miss getting to express different facets of myself in ways that few persons do.


I miss that when they walk through my studio door that they know, beyond a doubt that they matter - to ME. That they and I can count on that when they walk through that door, or I meet them somewhere that I am absolutely with them.


I miss that in the way a person remembers their first date they ever had. Creating that zing, making it special and seeing those eyes and smiles.


I miss the way I am treated the same way in return. The thoughtfulness, the happiness to be with me, the people who are gifters and have found just the right thing that they know I will like.



I have been saying this on my website and in my ads for years. It could sound cliche, but when I was asked this question, it rang true loud and clear in my head and heart.


I miss the specific PEOPLE.


No two people I have met are cookie cutter. I miss the direct physical differences, how each person hugs, kisses, touches. I miss shared massages, and couch snuggles by the fire. I SO much miss the kissing and massage that leads to more. I miss the people who like to go fast and intense. I miss the people I get to share hours with and take it slow. I miss the people I know I get to snuggle in and hear about their day or week while we cuddle by the fire.I miss knowing how peoples dogs are doing and their projects and dreams and families. I miss the people who need massage first to smooth out their day and settle in. I miss being the person on the table.


I miss the talking and the silence and the space where there is only breathing and kissing. I miss the shared sweat made together and the only with that person’s pheromones and mine.


I miss being able to leave the rest of the world behind, the world all of us have with thinking and logistics and being brain off and body ON.


I miss shared food and the tantric flavor of a shared meal. I miss those times I get to float in soaking baths and hot tubs and let the water set the rhythm. I miss the connection of touch during undressing rituals, letting the fabric be part of the experience, eyes closed and senses lit up. I miss skin. I miss being petted and explored.


I miss that each person brings out a different part of my response and that I can look forward to experiencing that piece of myself with them. I miss learning things about my own pleasure that would never be possible without that specific way of touch that that person brings.


I miss each person’s body, the things that work & with sincerity, the things that are challenges physically but that we find ways to create pleasure in new and different ways. I miss the learning and relearning over time as our bodies change over the years or months.


I miss never standing in the same river twice while keeping all the favorite parts.


I miss eye contact and seeing and being seen.


I miss the smell of each person. I miss the sounds of individual voices cadences. I miss the texture of hair and skin and clothing.


I miss so many things.


Having this time off “work” …. Brings home to me that I love my work; because my work is about the people.


I miss my people.


Be safe out there, while we all ride this through.


If you are already one of “my” people, know that I am missing you specifically, not in theory or abstract. I miss our time & our pacing. If you are one of these people, you will understand this at a cellular level since you created it with me.


If we haven’t met, know that when it's safe to return to the studio that I am looking forward to meeting you and finding out what I would miss once we’ve found our us.


Until our next studio date, I am holding space in my heart and my body for our next time to touch with our eyes, hands, skin and mouths.

Sex and Our Society

Sex and Our Society

While our entertainment, advertising and news media are flooded with images of blatant sexuality, in reality most people discover very little support for genuine sexuality and sensuality and expression of the whole of one's sexual desires and appetites. There are so many mixed, skewed and false messages on TV/radio about what sexuality looks like and who is SEXY. It is no wonder people are confused about what they feel or why they feel it. Many people believe they aren't normal, when in fact they are responding in healthy sexual ways, or when their body doesn't react the way they think it should, when they are progressing along a perfectly natural sexual response pattern.
An example of how the media skews things is in judging a woman's sexuality on how she dresses. Clothing and cosmetics which appear provocative, do not provide an accurate picture of how the woman is feeling. She may appear incredibly sexually inviting (which she likely knows) but this is not always an indication of whether or not she is experiencing a sexual sensation or desire. Confusion over this is often sited in cases of date rape. While there are men who deliberately force their sexuality on another person, it is truly tragic that many cases now labeled as rape are likely confusion over how sexuality is expressed. Both genders have work to do in expressing their desires clearly and in respecting the desires of the man or women they are with. How someone looks and how sexual someone feels are not the same thing.
We are not often taught what real sexuality looks like, feels like or tastes like. So many of us bumble around reacting to what society has taught us sex is. My work helps people to cut through those misinterpretations and to know one's own true desires and recognize and relate to the essence of the desires of others.
We are often not taught or rather taught not to, discuss our sexuality honestly. We tone down or exaggerate what we are feeling to sooth fears our partner may feel. We go along with the flow in a group of people when the majority goes on and on about someone walking by, whether they are hot or not, even if our preferences may be different.
We are not taught that our sexuality exists independently of our relationship status. Our own unique sexual fingerprint is ours and ours alone. No one else's is exactly like ours and it is a relatively permanent part of who we are, much of it with us from birth. It will be with us always; whether we are single or involved/committed. The question becomes how closely and honestly will we look at our own pattern of loops and whorls.
We need to take ownership of our sexuality. If we are single, we usually feed ourselves and clothe ourselves. If we are married and our spouse is away, or unavailable or not interested in the food we like, we quite often still take care of our other basic needs. We golf with our golf buddies if our wife doesn't golf. We go on spa days with the girls if we share an interest that our husband doesn't. We eat sushi with a buddy from work if our lover is a meat and potatoes individual. Most of us, however put immense pressure on our relationship to provide for all of our sexual needs at all times. If that doesn't work, we believe we have two options; to leave, or to cheat. There are other ways to handle our sexuality without burying it or denying it.
We all need to learn how to empower ourselves sexually with grace and integrity. A classic book which addresses this is Open Marriage by Nena and George O'Neill. Originally published in 1972 it is still very relevant in today's world. This book eloquently explains the pitfalls of requiring our partner to provide for all of our needs and wants, and how to find other ways of meeting those needs with kindness and integrity. A more modern work which address specifically the sexual negotiation is The Ethical Slut (1997) by Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Lizt. This book can be hard to read because it challenges so many of our beliefs but it will make you think about what you want and how to get there.
We also need to learn to take responsibility for the fact that we CAN control the expression of our sexual desires. There are techniques which can accelerate, decelerate, maintain, contain and disperse our sexual energy. This is something that can be taught as the layers of conditioning telling us that these things are out of our control are peeled away.
Learning to live with our sexuality in a realistic way reduces the needs for crimes of passion based on jealousy, as well as feelings of hurt and inadequacy when our lover expresses an interest not solely focused on our being everything to them.
This involves having the skills, knowing ourselves, knowing those we are involved with, knowing how to communicate, negotiating our future relationships to include the full expression of our sexual needs, working as best we can within current relationships to express our sexual growth in a healthy way, and if we must end them to continue growing taking responsibility for this and moving on with tenderness.
We need skills to maintain our sexuality in a healthy, honest, considerate, kind and loving way with ourselves and those we are involved with.

Finding your Sexual Path With Integrity

My Professional Views on Marriage & Fidelity and finding your Sexual path with Integrity.


Currently, married persons are welcome to become patrons regardless of their spouses involvement or knowledge, but I do encourage all potential patrons to read this section so that we may communicate comfortably. Your marital status, should you disclose it, will be held in the highest confidence at all times.





I believe that honesty is very important to our well being. We must be honest with ourselves to take care of ourselves and to live fully. I believe that intentional dishonesty to others is, in a way, theft. If we tell somebody something we know is not completely true in order to keep them, to get them to agree to something (such as marriage) or to appease them, we have stolen from them the right to make an informed choice and to live the life they need to live to take care of themselves.


That said, I believe it is incredibly difficult in our society to always be honest with our spouses. There is a phenomenal amount of pressure on people to agree to monogamy if they want the other benefits of long term committed relationships such as marriage.


This is a difficult path to walk and most of us find we fall into some shade of gray. Many people dearly want to raise a family and share in the journey with a partner they love. Many people agree to give up significant portions of their sexuality to do this. Some can adhere to that for years, decades or the duration of a marriage. Some follow through but are unhappy, some find ways to be happy without that part of themselves, other find avenues for release and hope they don't get caught.


Society seems to want to make this black and white. If he really loved her he wouldn't want to (fill in the blank). Yet most people experience times in their lives when they discover that they truly do love their life partner and experience feelings out of congruence with the promises they've made.


I believe in striving for honesty to the best of our ability.


I also believe that, at times, honestly is not possible without losing such a great part of ourselves that life is not worth living.


We should not have to cut off our toes to make the glass slipper fit.


Some people cannot be honest and open with their sexuality without losing a spouse, alienating their children, jeopardizing their careers or perhaps even being made uncomfortable or asked to leave their house of worship. These are real risks. Each person has to ask themselves how they will handle times when they find themselves wanting or needing something that was not agreed to or would not be tolerated in their current circumstances.


So what does a person do when everything else in the marriage works, when they value everything they have and just have this one need that their partner can't or won't meet?


Some people have an affair, which carries risks.


Some people leave, which costs them everything else they've worked for.


Some people sublimate their own needs and lose a little piece of themselves


Some people come to a professional to meet those needs.


I do not judge people who come to me by my standards. I understand the difficulties of making these choices and that it is not always the best shade of gray to risk complete honesty. Only the person in a situation can fully understand their best path.
My personal path is to:


Be as honest as possible when entering any new situation


Negotiate ways to communicate which allow for changing circumstances


Solicit and accept honesty from those I relate to


When I discover something that isn't meeting my needs to express it kindly


To avoid situations requiring me to be less than completely honest about my needs.


To me personally , honesty is of the highest priority. I have to be able to be fully myself to feel alive and I have structured my life to allow for this.
In My Practice:


I encourage people I work with to try to the best of their ability to look for a path that would allow for honesty.


I respect whichever choice has brought you to me.


I respect your right to disclose or not disclose your marital status to me.


I welcome the sharing of your feelings regarding your choices.


You may talk with me about this honestly, without risk of judgment.
I encourage the following:


If you can, talk with your spouse. Is there a way to meet these needs together? If you can, give them a chance to share this journey with you.


Try not to repeat the situation if you meet somebody new, try to make only obligations that you can meet without sacrificing those essential pieces of yourself.


Be as much a person of integrity as you can in other areas of your life.


Understand that there are risks if dishonesty is ever discovered. Can you afford to take them?


Accept the consequences of your choices without blaming others.


Be kind and compassionate towards your partner's honest responses, even if those responses don't meet your needs.




Beginning in March of 2020, I will be accepting only clients whose relationships status DO allow for open partaking of my services with in the construct of their current relationship formats. Everything I have written here is true, AND for me, working in the grey zone has taken a mordor like tone for me. I fully believe there is a need for people in all relationships to explore themselves and I value the concept of bodily autonomy. I also need to create for myself a world where my policy on no DADT (a poly term for don’t ask, don’t tell) follows through so that I can be even more my authentic and complete self and feel my work is of completely do no harm status.






It is my sincere hope that I will live long enough to see a time when people do not have to make such difficult and costly decisions to express their sensual nature.

Let's see if I can catch up, now that I have caught my breathezzzzz.............. Ananda's journey to the Winter of the Wierd...

So I left on January 18th for my first whole week-ish vacation (sanz pups and with travel) in more than 5/6 years.............  AND....



Well, that Jan. vacation didn't go as planned &  turned into sick leave instead of recreartionaling.

The nasty resppie virus going around our area took hold of my asthma and wrangled the poo out of it.

With my underlying asthma and autoimmune stuff, AND having been off nearly all my asthma and usual medications to do my every ten or twenty year recheck for allergies, blood work and all the things in December (I was trying to get all the good testing and stuff done before my insurance changed in January)


SO just before I left for vacation 


I did all the good patient things and all the testings and the lowest levels of meds and then we had the nasty-est since swine flue virus commus through-us area-us and popped in to see my asthma doc and get all the meds. IF I have to have a cold bug - at least I am on a scenic vacation whilst I do.


AND... the insurance and costco and doctor combined somehow managed to get me the wrong medicine at the wrong dosage and I wound up with unexpected medicine create cushings, edema and other side effects.... heart stuff, skin stuff, not able to sleep stuff and putting on enough water weight that same clothes I have packed for snow vacations for literally decades fit the day we got in the car and the next day did not - stretch marks no extra charge. I literally had to buy new clothing.


We figured out the medication glitch and changed that medication, but a second medication had switched brands and while we realized that in an attempt to save money the costco had done a less quantity of vials, more concentrated nebulizer fluid (thus the flight or flight and heart racing) the brand of oral steroids had changed... and what I thought were 10 mgs were 20..... thus the steroid sickness and swelling. I didn't read the label - usually white ones are 10 and pink ones are 20 so was taking double that, and essentially quadruple the breathing inny make lungs open.


Getting home and tapering off those medications, usually not a problem .... this volume and dosage was. Also, I was unable to walk which as everyone who know me knows I don't miss my 3-6 miles a day walking... but this bug settled into the lungs even with 3 antibios - to the point of having to wrap my rib cage and get codeine for the coughing to give me a little bit of a break.... so no solid and so no walking, and all the swelling and the  eating to settle the meds.... left me feeling not my chipper self. Nathan (primary partner) came down sick at the same time and so tween no sleep due to steroids and all the puppers we did not get much rest and had the dooziest of the time getting over this bug.


 I have never missed this much work in my entire life - and I have been working since I was 15. I haven't ever been so sick tween medicines and the bug itself that I literally couldn't get to my computer and sit up long enough to communicate to people.


I have had asthma and auto-immune things since my early 20s  and in over 25 years have never had anything hit me like this.


While we were in lovely Winthrop with all the stunning snow that we thought we would play in we took a few steps out of the car to see if we could do a gentle walk even with little air and I broke through the snow to my knee on my left side..... which at the time, on ridiculous amounts of prednisone I didn't feel...... the leg was however, very badly sprained, purple to the knee, swollen ....



Once home and back to doctors to fine tune meds and add antibiotic to see  if can get better faster they change the nebulizer fluidee type again and gave me help  calm down meds in different dosage.... and in sleepy state, I managed to create just a little brush fire in the house..... A little spilled rubbing alchool too close to the wood stove, down the woodo stove pipe - flash bang to the face and hair (all stil here) and managed to catch two dog crates on fire  (one eithe side of the wood stove)  I managed to throw one dog crate (80 lb pupper and all down the front stairs into the snow-ish) and get the other pup out of her crate with no dogs injured.... and on all the medication not feeling the burns on my hands (strangly enough in the shape of metal dog crates)



All of this at once, and then Feb 20th I tripped over one of my older puppy girls Ms. Chinook at 16+ .... not sure which one of us took longer to stand up but it knocked the wind out of me, Nathan was in the house a-bed while I was letting pups out in the morning and so I got back up and kept moving....


On the foot that was/is broken .... sigh.

SO now, I get to see an ortho doc, am not supposed to walk-on that foot, it's the other that was damaged in the snow and is sprained..... so I can't get into work unless I learn to teleport or for a few more days until they get this right one stabilized.


Again, with the not walk - the walking is what helps me get through the after effects of the prednisone and back to feeling myself.


Right now, I am on doctors orders to a -bed (not the playful type) through end of this weekend, recheck on Monday and then hopefully be released to play and frolic again. If not, one more week after and then I can come back even if it means wearing knee-pads... (hmm) to crawl up the stairs I mean .....



BUT the good news is now that those crazy making awake all nite but too groggy to focus on the screen meds are cleared and away I can Write again and catch up with people. My lungs are clear and good, my energy level is recoverying, by next week I will be my normal catch me if you can energy level, I just gotta get at least one of these legs to work well enough to get me up the stairs and get some muscle tone back.


Right now, I am definitely more cushy and cuddly than panther lean but that can be had fun with.


So I will be doing my best to catch up on all the REALLY late emails, screening requests and wonderfully compassionate texts, emails and get wells I have received.


AND my goal is to be back in studio by March 14th or March 21st at my regular times able to do all the fun and playful and tlc Ananda things.

Well, that vacation didn't go as planned..............

It's been exciting to say the least....

but tonight I need sleep so will post the most tomorrow after coffee and rest...

Vacation turned into unpaid sick leave... there were fires, and lung things and broken legs.....

stay tuned for the rest of the events and adventures and how and when I will be working my way back to studio!

THIS IS NOT the bed rest I signed up for!

:)

Well, that vacation didn't go as planned.... turned into sick leave instead of recreate..... sigh

This nasty resppie virus took hold of my asthma and is wrangling the poo out of it

I am still in here just very very sick - too sick to answer emails or watch tv kind of sick

I WILL BE BACK! just a matter of what day - and yes, I am seeing doctors!

I have had a little excitement also with a minor broken ish leg and fire involving my hands and face (but I am mostly still here and my face is still here - just sides of fingers sore as the "dickens" hehe) I should have a detailed blog and info up in next day or two to catch people up!) I plan to post blog with all the adventures here tomorrow :)

Starting back lite schedule 2/23/2017

Thursday 2/23/2017 1 ishy to 5/6 ishy

Friday 2/24/2017

Saturday and Sunday off for resting

Monday 2/27/2017 3-6 pm

Then back to "normal" lol - well my "surreality"

Ananda Hyburrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrnates til Monday 2/6/2016

Okay time to fess up - the doctors and my two footed pack-mates have me outnumbered... This little cold bug everyone else has has settled into pneumonia and I have been order to bed rest (the at- home pouty pjs and onsies bed rest) My sexiest outfit right now is my Pusheen onsie

So ........... this is not not the fun type of bed time stories for me through at least friday/Sat... monday if I do as I am told ) & I do believe people will chain me to the couch if I try to leave to get to studio.... and it appears people have hidden my car keys after I tried to work Saturday when I shouldn't have.... if I am not careful they will steal the lug nuts off my cars and then I shall have no nuts a'tall to keep me occupied.

IF we are already scheduled - please email me for details - don't just run away - I would NOT cancel without a direct communication to you - and if we are in planning stages of setting up a time, again please email so we can talk about when I can wiggle my way back in.... I'd rather be playing than laying in bed here!



Ananda as you all know her; The Maiden, MaDame, Muse: Embodiment of a Maiden, Heart of an earth-goddess & Passion of a Muse: ALL still here just on a one week delay – I expect to be back and rested by Monday Feb 6th or possibly Saturday …. If I can escape the watchful eye of my woofers and two footed pack-monitors

When I get back to my studio those of you who enjoy a mature woman who has lost none of her zest and zing will find me to have been returned to a stellar peak of enthusiasm, gracious pacing, physical stamina and a heart full of "make yourself at home away from home" comfort.

For this week in my metal cabin at home with my 20 woofers ........... Warm winter fires find me winterin' in a hybruuuuuurrrrrrnation layer of my "3-bears" incarnation (… this one is JUST right) for those of you who like that comfy fit on a firm matrix.

………..and for those of you who enjoy the jiggly puff softness… the breathing meds and steroids have me allllll a wiggle jiggle…. Everything still here – just a little squishier for the 2/3 weeks it will take to shed the water weight from that devil angel drug called prednisone. The good news: it keeps me breathing, the bad news is it makes meeeee a puffffy red faced cherub of a playmate.... or is that bad? It's kind of cute if you like the super extra cuddliness.

I am running slow on emails - due to sleepy meds for the cough and to make me not get into the car and try to come in and play.... I am a hard one to pin down lol.... well, to keep home anyway.... so if you email me or send a request, be patient by perhaps an extra 24 hours while I catch up and sit up long enough to compute



I will post my schedule as soon as I can be sure I can post times I can keep without cancelling last minute


Screening required before we meet:
Standard, on line screening is complimentary.

Half hour non studio meet and greet ($50 for non-line screening option)

Feeling Empowered: What can I do as a Client to support the work I find value in?

https://sexworkclients.org

Read this one Early on:

https://sexworkclients.org/why-decriminalization

The Words that move me.......... Writings for Ananda from the People who visit my world....

The Words that move me.......... Writings for Ananda from the People who visit my world....




When people wanted to learn a little bit about me before meeting, I used to happily direct them to my "reviews" my on line resume' on the local boards.




With the current politics and reviews becoming something of a "charge" or "chargeable" topic ... I find myself requesting testimonials that I can post here or on my website as a way for people to get to know a little bit about me before meeting.


This format isn't as "3rd party objective" as reviews.... but you have my word that while anonymity is protected.. and here, on this blog, some of the juicier details are omitted ... nothing has been added or taken out of context from the original writings by people who have visited my world and found value in time spent, solace from sensual wounds, fulfillment of needs perhaps not even recognized, expansion of their horizons, sanctuary from their mundane lives ..... people who have found that my signature, my tag line, my email quote are not "just words"....










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Ananda Healer









10/14/2016 (written directly as a testimonial for to A)






To Any Interested Party: I first met Ananda about three and a half years ago, after responding to her " Afternoons With Ananda " ad on Backpage. I was actually delighted to be accepted through her, rather vigorous , screening process. It was well worth the effort. Some of the adjectives which come to mind when describing Ananda are, gorgeous, well organized, caring,passionate, light hearted, extremely erotic and fun. When we first met she told me " I want everything to be perfect ". My thought was " that's easy to say ". It was the last cynical thought I had about Ananda. She really does want everything to be perfect and she is very good at it. Her studio, while not fancy, is warm and inviting. It is perfectly equipped for a lovely, erotic interlude. It did not take me long to realize that I had had the the very good luck to have found a genuine, loving, erotic woman who loved her work. She is the "Real Thing ". With that in mind I took the huge risk ( in my mind ) of asking her to introduce me to Tantra, which was on her rather extensive menu. The results have been an extraordinarily rewarding learning experience. Together we have reached and maintained levels of sensuality which I could never have imagined possible. I consider my association with Ananda to be one of the best possible parts of a pretty good life. I often wonder what I did to deserve such a friendship and such joy. A Happy Customer




9/2016 (TER excerpt)





OK People, this woman will make you forget this is a service. On time and very welcoming, I was greeted at the door with a sensual hug like we had know each other for years. She takes a genuine interest your needs when communicated. A very clean, and erotic studio. After a quick shower, Ananda tended to my needs. Not pushy and very open. She even asked what would be a good temperature for the session before my arrival! Give this woman your attention.



The Juicy Details (abbreviated)


I arrived at her studio at the predetermined time and texted her my arrival. A prompt text back and within five short minutes I was greeted at the door by a woman in thigh-high stockings and a soft, silky halter dress. This was our second session together. A sensual hug was exchanged and I was offered a shower to expedite the removal of the 1+hrs road grime and stress from my body which I readily accepted. I was offered a choice of robes to wear or not wear. I explained to her what I needed for the day (details omitted by A)



As good as this felt she is very punctual and asked if we should move ourselves form the main part of the studio to the bed chamber area. This is a very erotic place with photos on the wall of naked bodies and a netted four post bed. After a quick drink of water with lemon I seized a moment of (details omitted by A) She pushed through my mental block when I was ready and brought me to the most earth shattering orgasms I had ever had! She gave excellent aftercare and there was no rush to leave. A truly mind blowing experience.
Ladies and gentlemen, give this wonderful woman your time and attention. You will not regret it!














7/2016 (excerpt from TNA)


It was almost 3 years ago that I first met Ananda and she has been in my rotation ever since. Along the way I have tried many of her menu items from her basic "bread and butter, her "third base make out", lunch out followed by her "beyond GFE" and several combinations. Recently I thought I might be ready for her basic "tantra". I have enjoyed the hobby for several years and have discovered what I really like most is the time spent with a provider who knows and loves what she does. Ananda certainly meets this requirement.






As I ( and others) have written Ananda is very special. Her studio is wonderful and I continue discover new and very erotic art. She is a beautiful, mature highly skilled provider who has all the curves in the places you would want; see on her web page gallery.






6/25/2016


As I ( and others) have written Ananda is very special. Her studio is wonderful and I continue discover new and very erotic art. She is a beautiful, mature highly skilled provider who has all the curves in the places you would want; see on her web page gallery.





This review is a bit late, but she provides such an amazing experience that I wanted to make sure people are aware. She can take even the most nervous newbie and make him forget that this isn't the end result of the best date ever.


She answered the door and greeted me immediately with a warm, sincere hug. Immediately giving a comfortable, easy going vibe. We had a light, fun conversation about what we wanted to have happen. I cleaned up and we started on the massage table. She gives a VERY high quality massage, easily a professional quality. It was not long before the massage turned into a reminder of why I was there.

I truly felt like I was on the better end of a date. Her touch is very sensual and she does a great job of making seemingly routine things extraordinarily erotic. I would strongly encourage anyone to see her.






6/24/2016 (excerpt from TNA)





After my first meeting with Ananda I consulted with her and I decided to go for her Lomi Lomi massage. Now, as a disclaimer, this massage is a healing massage. There is power in it and energy flows on many different levels and emotional releases can occur and each individual's experience with it may differ, I will give you my experience.


Once I arrived at the location I was stunned again by how beautiful Ananda is. She greeted me at the door in a Hawaiian outfit that looked amazing. We sat and talked for a moment about what to expect with the Lomi Lomi, this is not one where you will get “Full service” After a quick shower I was instructed on what to wear, a simple Hawaiian shawl for men. I dressed and laid down on the massage table face down as Ananda got the music playing and dimmed the lights. First she started with slow circular motions up and down my back. These motions made me feel as though I was weightless in the water, letting the waves move me around effortlessly. This continued for a while until she slowly pulled the cover off of my body. This felt like the water was slowly releasing me from its grip.


There was a pause, and you could feel the energy level changing and Ananda began to rub my body again using forearms and her breasts. The technique she used made it feel as though I was receiving kisses all over my body where ever her body touched. At a few points she would kiss my body, or press her mouth on it and hum, and it was electric the energy that came out of it.


Then she started to rub my back with a sugar scrub and I can say that I now know how the beach feels when warm waves caress the shores. It was amazing! All of this was done on my back. When I rolled over it got even better.


She started with the top of my head and I was astounded at how erotic and sensual the energy in the room was. As she stepped up to my chest I glanced over and saw that she was indeed naked at this time, and she has such an amazing figure. She then performed many of the same rubs on my chest that she did on my back. It was teasing and filling at the same time. (details omitted here by ananda) After, we cuddled and talked for a little bit, but the two hours flew by. I could see that she was tired, she literally poured herself into the work she did. She did not pressure me for time and instead recommended I take another shower to get the sugar scrub off.

While this review may seem complete, I actually left out the warm towels, the soft fur, and many other things that I will continue to cherish. I left there charged, with more energy than I had in weeks. Thank you Ananda for an amazing experience.


5/13/2016 (excerpt from TNA) First Time Session with a True Seeker


This is the first time I have ever seen a provider. I was nervous and unsure what to do but Ananda was patient with me and at no time did I feel pressured or uncomfortable. With some difficulties due to traffic our initial meeting or verification was only a few minutes long but she did provide some ice water with lemons in it and gave a little tour of her facility. We set up an appointment the following day and traffic was much kinder. It was well worth it. Ananda greeted me wearing a tight salmon colored sun dress that looked amazing on her. She gave a better tour of her facility and then asked if I would like to take of my shoes and get comfortable.





After removing my shoes Ananda asked if I would like wine or water, the water that she provided was nice and icy with a slice of lemon in it. Next she asked if I would like to freshen up a little and the escorted me into the bathroom where she went over her different soaps I could use as well as the wrapped, single use tooth brushes she supplies and mouth wash she has available. She showed me a series of robes she has available and told me to come out when I was ready dressed or undressed however I like. Her area is a clothing optional zone she explained, just feel like you can be yourself. She then set the water to warm and closed the door. I looked at her dizzying array of soaps ranging from none scented to one with mint in it. I used the peppermint soap that she had and found it left a pleasant tingle where it touched. After drying of and brushing my teeth again I put on a nice silk robe that made me feel like a Japanese emperor.





When I opened the door she greeted me and led me to a comfortable reclining chair where we began talking about our expectations. She made it so comfortable and asked probing questions to explore our time together. Some of the questions she asked were what is a feeling that I would wish would go on forever. What touch do I love receiving and what touch do I love to give as well. Many of her responses helped me to fine tune my thoughts and intentions of wanting to learn to receive more. As she sat down on the couch between my legs (...) her legs were very distracting in a good way. As we conversed she went from sitting straight up, wither her hand tentatively on my leg to resting her shoulder on my arm while running her fingers along my chest. As the heat grew I slipped off the robe as her hands stroked my chest and legs, sleekly skidding closer until she (...) while looking into my eyes. That is one thing that strikes me with this, during the whole time she kept amazing eye contact and would purr with pleasure when she rashly liked something. The only time she did not keep eye contact was when I gently ran my fingers through her hair, softly caressing her face. Then she would slowly close her eyes and positively melt into the touch. As she explained, it is one way that she loves to be touched.


The conversation was riveting and her ideas and thoughts on topics ranging from social prejudice to quirky geek knowledge was well formed and presented. The time was literally flying by and when she looked at the clock she and I were both astonished to find how much time had passed. Noticing the hour she asked if I wanted some table time which I desperately wanted if only to work a knot out of my shoulder. As we went to the table time seemed to slow as she lifted her sun dress over her head revealing her amazing body. I was distracted and reached out to her and she folded into my arms and allowed me to kiss her (...). It took a lot of control to break away from her and to have her start to work on my back. I laid face down so I would not be so distracted and our vibrant conversation continued as she continued her ministrations to my body. While her conversational skills are definitely engaging, it is on the table that she really shines. She feels the energy that flows through your body, seeks out the places it is knotted and releases the energy, not only gently, but seductively. (details omitted by Ananda in this venue) I Finally turned over, As I turned over I was pleased to see that she did not go immediately to my obvious desire, but instead worked my chest, legs and arms, before coming up onto the table with me, sliding her legs under mine and sliding close. (... details excerpted by A.. ) She had asked earlier if I wanted a release in this session, and I was not sure if I did so we agreed to play it by ear. When she asked again if I wanted a release, to my surprise I told her no, I wanted to keep all of this sexual and sensual energy inside. (juicy and oily details omitted) As she was doing this she looked up at the time and a shocked look crossed her face and she said we only had 5 or 10 more minutes and would I like to have a hot towel or a shower. I looked at the time and saw that we were already over our agreed upon 90 minutes. She said she did not mind, but she would not have time to shower with me if I chose to shower. I opted for the hot towels in order to keep the conversation going. Now one thing you need to realize, the conversation was great, it was riveting and held true to the old fashioned meaning of intercourse, but it was also punctuated by long moans and sighs as please took away both of our abilities to talk from time to time. As she climbed off me I was able to once again appreciate how great of a body she has. She used three or four towels that were nice and warm to gently wipe down my body. As I stood up she followed and we continued to talk as I dressed and she put on a robe, though she did make it a point to show a lot of leg in it looking like to cover to show girls (I am a leg man after all.) We hugged and bid farewell until the next time. I came with a need to receive, to be filled, and Ananda was just what the doctor ordered. We did not have sex, but that was not appropriate for this session, we had verbal intercourse, connection, and my body felt well appreciated and honored. I will definitely be going back.








6/2016 (Sensual Touch Rev excerpt )





Ananda is an extremely genuine person. I set up an appointment through 411.com which I find to be a really great way to screen. Also I find the providers on their to be extremely professional with real incalls (not hotels). Once prescreened Ananda offers an amazing assortment of choices for services offered from her website. My time with her was extremely informative. She has an extremely good knowledge base about all things sensual/sexual. She offers intimacy coaching which was what I was interested in. For our first encounter she really got to know what I was hoping to achieve with future visits. Then she gave an incredible sensual massage that left me satisfied beyond belief. It was the best sensual massage I've ever had. She is very tuned into where you are at sexually. I highly recommend anyone seeking a genuine and highly talented woman. I believe she truly enjoys what she does. Also her in call is very clean, professional with showers available. Highly recommend.








5/2016 (excerpt from TNA)





I've met with Ananda twice in the last few weeks. The last meeting was on date above.





Setup was easy and professional. Process allowed for type of session, date & time requested, as well as any special needs/thoughts. Received prompt confirmation & coordination of session. Since I arranged meetings several days in the future, Ananda stayed in touch via e-mail (a nice personal touch). Day of meeting received comprehensive info for meeting & easy to follow directions (again a nice personal touch & very professional - she even asked what I would like to have to drink).





Ananda greeted me at the door with warm smile, beautiful blue eyes, hugs & kisses. Since the initial meeting was my first at her incall, she gave me a tour & explained/pointed out amenities. Her incall is warm, inviting and well appointed. She has given thought to creating a comfortable relaxing environment.


Coupled with Ananda's conversation & sensuality, felt comfortable & at ease.





Ananda stayed connected with me throughout and made me feel that her time with me was special and personalized. She is an excellent listener, both to your words & your body. She has the ability to translate that into actions that make you feel totally as one.





She truly makes you feel that for the time you are with her, you are the center of her universe and she is focused only on you & lets your actions/reactions guide her's. Not a "scripted" going through the motions thing. She makes you feel that it is a very personalized experience for her as well as you.





Ananda's touch is amazing. Her penetrating blue eyes are amazing. Touching her soft sensual curves is amazing.





Ananda is AMAZING!!!

Words of Encouragement... From People who Read My Words........

Words of Encouragement... From People who Read My Words........ 


 Why  we sing for others:  TO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL LESS ALONE. Perhaps that is something you would share with your colleagues as it most certainly applies. There are times in life when one feels alone even when in the midst of people. Sometime even among those for whom we care.    Remember, only the lead dog has a changing view. Keep mushing Hon! 



Here are some of the most validating and sustaining words written to me after my blog on current politics around my avocation. Sometimes, words are enough to keep a person going. These are just as profound as the ones I found myself writing and an important piece of the picture as a whole....

Sweet Ananda,

I feel your angst and pain, and outright disgust of certain 'official' entities in their complicity in the very sad and tragic results of their misguided and cruel actions! ! !

(*) also sent me a link to the eye-opening article awhile back. While I haven't checked, I wonder if Ms. Nolan Brown's bold and powerful article has ever been picked up and reprinted in the Stranger, or even the Weekly  -  and if not  -  why not?

Your thoughtful cry and heartfelt blog truly hits me right in the gut. I can understand the torment and distress you so acutely express concerning this sudden incursion upon your personal life, with its serious disruption of the manner of a life culture you have successively built for a decade, and even ramifications of potential pejorative exposure of yourself to this same fallacious and injudicious attitude currently at large!

I am so sorry.  I can't blame you for your uncertainties and even contemplation of withdrawing from this viable community we share, even temporarily, to minimize whatever risks that might yet come down the road. I can understand completely that such might be your decision at this time Thank you for sharing the link and your fervent communiqué with me. I am honored and grateful to you for including me in your online missives.

Take care. You know that you have a personal community of family that loves and supports you in this time of uncertainties. Perhaps know also that I, among many others of the TRB tribe, do also.

Wonderful Ananda,

I just wanted you to know how much I, and so many others, care and understand the justifiably mixed emotions that you so eloquently expressed in your fervent blog. You must have spent major time in creating and writing out those meaningful words. I also know that you spoke so very relevantly for so many ladies of this vital community that are in the same situation and sentiment. Thank you for that.

Hmmm. My own missive was intended as response to your very personal entreaty. I suppose I am flattered that you might want to share parts of it. I trust in your considerable composing and writing skills if you think such might add in letting other affected parties know of the extended empathy that so many of us desire to proffer to all involved in this unnecessary quandary!.

Thanks to you also for the 'backdoor' to your web page you kindly re-supplied to me. It is so good to be able to view your delectable content again. Now, I can again, make connection to you safely via your encrypted website. Much love and support to you as you sort out these difficulties.

My Dearest Ananda:  I owe you an apology. I got to reading the very disturbing article and it caused me to delay my intended response to our session. First let me say that it was one of the great experiences of my lifetime. Second, I am both honored and flattered that you would invite me to participate with you. The extended physical, loving, almost spiritual intensity was sublime but also, in the end exhausting. I can't help but think that it must take a toll on you. Anyway, you have my total gratitude for having opened this doorway for me.

       The article really pisses me off. When the established peacekeepers start acting on their own moral judgements we are all in trouble. It reminds me a little of the " satanic cults " back in the 70's. At that time a lot of prosecutors and police officers fervently believed these were widespread and at times practicing " devil worship " and human sacrifice. It was all B.S. but they ruined a lot of people's lives before they were through.  With Love and Admiration,   

Dearest Ananda:  The current witch hunt is more difficult. It seems to me that this is basically a political problem. The current establishment views the way to maintain their power is to appear hard and decisive on issues that " should " be of great concern to the general public. These issue range from political correctness to dope to prostitution to worker exploitation and on and on. The fact that the general public is generally ambivalent ( live and let live ) is of no consequence. It seems to me that the country is hungry for a change in the political climate. The  choices this election underscore the desperate nature of this collective attitude. My personal solution is the Libertarian Party. ( Check out their position on Prostitution. ) It has taken the country years and years to finally come around to the Libertarian common sense view on drugs. They do have some goofy ideas but so do I.  If I were sex worker, or a customer, I would actively support Libertarian candidates at every level of public office. I realize that this is a simplistic solution to a complex problem but will serve for discussion purposes and it is my feeling that actually doing something which you consider the right thing is far better than doing nothing.          Remember, you are a wonderful woman who has created a lot of joy and are deeply appreciated.  With Much Love,

Dearest Ananda:   Perhaps the Libertarian solution is too long term. What sex workers need is a political advocate. The LGBT community has been very successful at this approach. Of course having a gay mayor doesn't hurt. It seems to me that Seattle is very fertile ground for thrusts that are a little beyond the mainstream. If I were advocating on behalf of sex workers I  would          completely leave out any aspect of morality and focus entirely on " health and safety " issues. The industry exists, it has for thousands of years and will continue for thousands more. The vast majority of sex workers have chosen the profession voluntarily. They work hard are skilled and pay taxes. They deserve to have a safe working environment as much as any other worker in our society. It serves no purpose to persecute them.    All it would take for a start is one person, preferably female, in a politically influential position to quietly argue the case. The initial goal would be to rein in the zeal with which the prosecutors and police pursue their sting operations. These always create more harm than good and are basically just ego trips for the authorities ( talk about toxic masculinity). These are my latest thoughts on the issue for what they are worth. An analogy, I don't worry much about the golf industry but worry a lot about how I hit the ball.

Articles of Interest from Various Sources

http://www.thestranger.com/news/feature/2015/02/11/21689047/meet-the-sex-workers-who-lawmakers-dont-believe-exist


 http://www.thestranger.com/slog/2016/03/30/23886193/seattle-times-opinion-piece-responds-to-the-strangers-criticism-of-flawed-sex-work-research


http://www.thestranger.com/blogs/slog/2016/01/07/23376530/king-countys-unprecedented-prostitution-sting-has-shut-down-a-popular-vetting-tool-for-sex-workers
 

Words of Encouragement... From People who Read My Words........

Words of Encouragement... From People who Read My Words........ 
 Why  we sing for others:  TO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL LESS ALONE. Perhaps that is something you would share with your colleagues as it most certainly applies. There are times in life when one feels alone even when in the midst of people. Sometime even among those for whom we care.    Remember, only the lead dog has a changing view. Keep mushing Hon! 



Here are some of the most validating and sustaining words written to me after my blog on current politics around my avocation. Sometimes, words are enough to keep a person going. These are just as profound as the ones I found myself writing and an important piece of the picture as a whole....

Sweet Ananda,

I feel your angst and pain, and outright disgust of certain 'official' entities in their complicity in the very sad and tragic results of their misguided and cruel actions! ! !

(*) also sent me a link to the eye-opening article awhile back. While I haven't checked, I wonder if Ms. Nolan Brown's bold and powerful article has ever been picked up and reprinted in the Stranger, or even the Weekly  -  and if not  -  why not?

Your thoughtful cry and heartfelt blog truly hits me right in the gut. I can understand the torment and distress you so acutely express concerning this sudden incursion upon your personal life, with its serious disruption of the manner of a life culture you have successively built for a decade, and even ramifications of potential pejorative exposure of yourself to this same fallacious and injudicious attitude currently at large!

I am so sorry.  I can't blame you for your uncertainties and even contemplation of withdrawing from this viable community we share, even temporarily, to minimize whatever risks that might yet come down the road. I can understand completely that such might be your decision at this time Thank you for sharing the link and your fervent communiqué with me. I am honored and grateful to you for including me in your online missives.

Take care. You know that you have a personal community of family that loves and supports you in this time of uncertainties. Perhaps know also that I, among many others of the TRB tribe, do also.

Wonderful Ananda,

I just wanted you to know how much I, and so many others, care and understand the justifiably mixed emotions that you so eloquently expressed in your fervent blog. You must have spent major time in creating and writing out those meaningful words. I also know that you spoke so very relevantly for so many ladies of this vital community that are in the same situation and sentiment. Thank you for that.

Hmmm. My own missive was intended as response to your very personal entreaty. I suppose I am flattered that you might want to share parts of it. I trust in your considerable composing and writing skills if you think such might add in letting other affected parties know of the extended empathy that so many of us desire to proffer to all involved in this unnecessary quandary!.

Thanks to you also for the 'backdoor' to your web page you kindly re-supplied to me. It is so good to be able to view your delectable content again. Now, I can again, make connection to you safely via your encrypted website. Much love and support to you as you sort out these difficulties.

My Dearest Ananda:  I owe you an apology. I got to reading the very disturbing article and it caused me to delay my intended response to our session. First let me say that it was one of the great experiences of my lifetime. Second, I am both honored and flattered that you would invite me to participate with you. The extended physical, loving, almost spiritual intensity was sublime but also, in the end exhausting. I can't help but think that it must take a toll on you. Anyway, you have my total gratitude for having opened this doorway for me.

       The article really pisses me off. When the established peacekeepers start acting on their own moral judgements we are all in trouble. It reminds me a little of the " satanic cults " back in the 70's. At that time a lot of prosecutors and police officers fervently believed these were widespread and at times practicing " devil worship " and human sacrifice. It was all B.S. but they ruined a lot of people's lives before they were through.  With Love and Admiration,   

Dearest Ananda:  The current witch hunt is more difficult. It seems to me that this is basically a political problem. The current establishment views the way to maintain their power is to appear hard and decisive on issues that " should " be of great concern to the general public. These issue range from political correctness to dope to prostitution to worker exploitation and on and on. The fact that the general public is generally ambivalent ( live and let live ) is of no consequence. It seems to me that the country is hungry for a change in the political climate. The  choices this election underscore the desperate nature of this collective attitude. My personal solution is the Libertarian Party. ( Check out their position on Prostitution. ) It has taken the country years and years to finally come around to the Libertarian common sense view on drugs. They do have some goofy ideas but so do I.  If I were sex worker, or a customer, I would actively support Libertarian candidates at every level of public office. I realize that this is a simplistic solution to a complex problem but will serve for discussion purposes and it is my feeling that actually doing something which you consider the right thing is far better than doing nothing.          Remember, you are a wonderful woman who has created a lot of joy and are deeply appreciated.  With Much Love,

Dearest Ananda:   Perhaps the Libertarian solution is too long term. What sex workers need is a political advocate. The LGBT community has been very successful at this approach. Of course having a gay mayor doesn't hurt. It seems to me that Seattle is very fertile ground for thrusts that are a little beyond the mainstream. If I were advocating on behalf of sex workers I  would          completely leave out any aspect of morality and focus entirely on " health and safety " issues. The industry exists, it has for thousands of years and will continue for thousands more. The vast majority of sex workers have chosen the profession voluntarily. They work hard are skilled and pay taxes. They deserve to have a safe working environment as much as any other worker in our society. It serves no purpose to persecute them.    All it would take for a start is one person, preferably female, in a politically influential position to quietly argue the case. The initial goal would be to rein in the zeal with which the prosecutors and police pursue their sting operations. These always create more harm than good and are basically just ego trips for the authorities ( talk about toxic masculinity). These are my latest thoughts on the issue for what they are worth. An analogy, I don't worry much about the golf industry but worry a lot about how I hit the ball.

Who is Ananda Today: Fall into my world.... 2016

Welcome to Ananda's Sensual World.

With the Body of a Maiden, Heart of an earth-goddess & Passion of a Muse;

I bring a zesty, embodied, loving maturity and wisdom with a dynamic level of energy to my custom crafted sessions. I am truly a sensual artist and I love my career. Passion and sensuality are so very deeply embedded in my being that my entire world, my friends, my family and my clients know that this is who I AM not something I put on for show.

My chosen healer name is Ananda Healer. Healer is not a euphemism. Ananda is a Sanskrit word describing the combined principles of... Joy, Bliss, Transcendence, and Ecstasy. I chose it because there isn't one word in our language which contains all of the concepts I embrace and aspire to live. Ananda isn't my given name but it is my REAL name.

I am 46 years old and have enjoyed many things in life. I have always been drawn to sexual energy and persons who are comfortable in their own skin. I discovered one day, to my delight, I am one of those persons. I want to help other people become truly comfortable and satisfied in their own unique sexuality. I do this by sharing myself, my time, my essence and my passion.

My work is at it’s best and I specialize in working with people who:

·        Are free to engage in this work openly: i.e. single or with partners consent and/or enthusiasm. I do see people who must compartmentalize this part of their lives AND my work can take you further if you are free to explore without juggling grey zones. We can talk about this and how to navigate these paths.

·        Bereavement Transitions back into Sensuality During healing

·        Estrangement: When a partnership has ended the sensual portion and a person is seeking to relearn themselves sensually before or during a transition back into dating and romance in the private sector.

·        Expanding: the standard version of sex and learning /exploring new, deeper, exponentially more fulfilling sensual paths.

About My Practice:
I am a consummate service professional. I am known for my stellar ethics and dedication to making your time everything it is intended. My reviews and testimonials consistently mention my attention to detail, my respect for your time and my utter commitment to your feeling completely attended to while you are with me in my space and sharing time.

I have been immersed in this avocation since 2007 and I will be here when you want and need me. I fully expect to continue in this career until I am at least 55…. so I will be here another 10 years in addition to my 9+ currently accrued. I love meeting new people and especially love getting to know people over time and going ever deeper in the layers of sensual expression. I also love developing deeper connections over time and still share time with people I met my first week in this amazing world.

Who am I Physically?

 From Golden Cougar to Silver WolfWoman...

* I am 46 & vibrantly healthy & alive in my body. I walk 3-6 miles per day, dance, hike and enjoy living in my physical vessel fully.
* I am not ageless but I am timeless and I keep getting better with the passing years... really.
* My eyes are a blue that will look right into YOU and see what you want and need.
* My skin ranges from translucent alabaster to a golden tan.
* As part of my recent graceful transition my hair is currently “black hills gold” themed: shifting to golden blonde with silvery- platinum streaks and a lingering  touch of copper; shimmery, touchable bunches of curls which look lovely in pix and are even more amazing in person.
* I am built for curves and comfort -”3 bears” style - not tooo soft, not too firm but JUSSST right
*I am 5’9" with a lovely hip/waist differential (hourglass) and very happy, friendly 34B+ breasts with reactive and perky personality.
My weight ranges from 135-155. I am slender and fit, comfy and curvy

* I am often referred to as sensual, feline, fertile, womanly and generally sexy.

* I take exquisite & fastidious care of myself in all ways; hygienically, nutritionally & aesthetically.

The photos I post on my site and any advertising are always very current or the dates clearly marked. I do not use photo shop except in very rare cases for artistic effect. I want you to be delighted to meet me, so I show myself as fully as is possible in 2 dimensions and then we can fill in the rest in person.
When you meet me, you are meeting a woman with a full, rich life who has afternoons and early evenings to share time with persons who can appreciate the abundance I have to offer.
Those of you who enjoy a mature female specimen who has lost none of her zest and zing will find time with me to be at it's peak. As I told my doctor, I don't want my libido to be "age appropriate" I want you to install the same levels that I enjoyed in my 20's. I have a great doctor which means that I truly have the best of both worlds to share; all the patience and finesse of a stealthy cougar with the vavummmmmmm of my younger self. Come on in and let’s find the perfect pacing for our playful connection.

2016 is rounding out my tenth year in this sensual world… My birthday in March 2017 will complete 10 wonderful years. I still share time with clients I met my first month in this venture. I invite you to come see if we have that same lasting fit or will simply share a memorable moment in time.

My website has pictures from my first Ananda Shoot in 2007 through my current embodiment and physical expression.

 
I offer many types of sessions, and in every session we co-create, I bring all of ME whole-heartedly and passionately. I offer a variety of sessions from playful to educational to experiential.

~ I am a fantastic communicator with words, and TOUCH is my primary language.

~ I take care of business details before your session; your session time is all about YOU.

~ I value your time & your privacy as much as my own.

~ I do not play games & I mean what I say & I do what I say I will. I am safe, clean & FUN!

People enjoy many different things and that’s all good! If you enjoy touch, touching, presence, real connection & a deep authentic experience with a real person who has complete comfort in her own skin; then you are in the right place. If you are seeking a scripted session, power play or a paint by numbers stereotype I am not the gal for you. If you aren’t sure, come on in and let’s find out!

My platinum level session is titled “Shared Time and Essence” and allows for the possibility of possibility…. For the gentleman (or lady) who wants to be free to explore in the moment and see where that moment takes us.

Although I may schedule more than one sensual touch or coaching appointment in a day, I schedule only one Shared Time and Essence session. This is to allow me to maintain my energy at a peak level for profound, real time authentic passion during those most interactive moments. It can take 1-3 in-studio days to arrange one of these sessions, and will be completely worth your efforts.

Please, when scheduling allow time both before and after for an unrushed drive during which you can anticipate or reflect upon those delicious moments.

For details and suggested donations on my sessions, please enjoy reading my full menu on my web site.

I do require screening to wander into my virtual world, but once in, you can get to know me, my style, my passions and my offerings in much more detail than I can share here.


Visit, Read, Enjoy… and then come enjoy in person.

www.anandahealer.com

 

Who do I most Enjoy Spending time with?

I very much enjoy meeting people from all walks of life; it’s part of what makes this avocation stimulating and engaging. Here are some things that work especially well for me:

~ People who “get” both Jimmy Buffett and Sci-fi

~ People who love to read and have active minds

~ People who love the outdoors and find being outside sensual

~ Age doesn’t matter to me – I enjoy people who are alive and exploring at any age

~ People who love touch – sounds obvious – but truly I resonate with people who love touch as much as I do

~ People who love critters and understand my passion for my rescue pack

~ People who are retired, self-employed or can get away during the day to visit me

~ People who love music and/or bring music to share

~ People who love art, dance, travel and find that those add to their passions

~ People who experience sensuality in everyday life or will let me show them how

~ People who are working through bereavement or estrangement – I have a gift for healing here

~ People who enjoy conversation AND who can dive right into the Physical experience with me