Tanuki Does... Reminiscences of Roses, Tequila & Timing
Ananda’s Narrative:
The fun story as it is remembered and relived after ...
From the very get go Setting up this session was fun and friendly. From introduction email and my initial request/query, to touch base in between (I scheduled quite a ways out) to directions for the day of, this was easy and comfortable and welcoming…
This
is quite a trek for me as I start clear down in Graham, so I was hoping that
the third time’s drive timing was the charm, but not driving I5. 2 hours
allowed per GPS and I was still late. Even with help from my personal real time
text GPS and street guide Mr. Trucker I lost ground due to 3 major wrecks. So
far my track record as a timely client is still not so good. Still, 2.5 hours
into my drive, easy street parking and a welcoming talk-in to the studio all
made it easy to arrive, even tardy.
From the moment I walked in I felt I could be at home, relax and that although I was sad that I would miss out on 30 of my 120 precious minutes it would all be worth it.
I was de-shoeing and looking around and taking it all in when she gave me a choice of tea or tequila and I opted for a tiny sip of the stronger option. Served with grapes and conversation it was the perfect combination to settle in.
I opted for a quick shower to shake off the road and she showed me into the sensual touch room, which is very very comfy and warm. Time to shed the towel and then pick an oil. I am usually fragrance sensitive and rose fragrance can be tricky but her oil with roses and other yummies really called to me and turned out to be the PERFECT choice to imprint.
We talked for a bit about what I wanted. It’s always hard to articulate what I need. I am still mostly in that place of “not being the driver”. I just wanted to let my body lead, see where it wanted to wind up after a decompression. I needed no expectations and to linger in my own sensation for the pure selfishness of it. I really felt heard in this.
I love sex and I have never met an orgasm I didn't like (hmmm well that’s not true but I like most of them pretty well and it sounds good) But for real, I love the full range of sexual response in myself and in my partners, but in my world sometimes I need a break from the expectation and intention setting of always including that, or including it in triplicate or rapid fire.
Since in my work and in my personal world I have a thing about not faking that means I am very very good at knowing HOW to go to that zone, and how to help people help me get there, and which KIND of orgasm I enjoy… but what I needed to express and what she was able to hear, was that I needed to be touched with no org-spectations. Just touch for the sake of touch.
Table time was exquisite. Patient. Brain off. Body engaged. Lovely fragrance and long lingering whole body touch. Comfortable touch. Contact. Connection. No Need to DO anything but be a limp, breathing sighing noodle. I am discovering more and more that I really really like the feel of a curvey body sinking into mine like the best comforter ever. Just being blanketed in the feminine. I could have slept that way, but I didn’t want to miss anything. I am growing more and more addicted to the feel of soft warm breast-tickles and warm tummies against my back. The sensation is so sexy, sensual and soothing all at once. I felt completely bathed in touch without expectation.
The hardest part of the session was turning over. Worth it. More wonderful connection, touch, long soothing, and layers of pressure, soft and firm all at the same time.
At some point she asked if I had time to stay for the full two hours, and I so appreciated it. I would NEVER expect someone to offer that but was so so very glad that her time and energy allowed for it. YES.
At some point she asked if I would like the touch to become more specific and focused. Not in quite those words but YES.
Having permission to not need to react, allowed things to want to open. Having my breasts peek up and say hello and be greeted gently and with no hurry, in their entirety was true decadence.
Her specific work was a gentle unfolding. I am calling it "petaling". The Rose was perfect for this. Starting outward, gently, each petal held in regard as its own complete being, made it easy to bloom. I would have been completely content to have just Yoni massage without the build. Until the build. So much perfect. Timing, pacing, her reading my body and my breath. Rhythm and relax into the blooming. No force, no push, no pressure. Just blossum.
I am not sure who was more happy girl giggly after. I was feeling rather languid and just loungey about on the table as she sat next to me while I drifted back into reality. She gave me quite a compliment which I shall keep to myself, something about being fun but the specifics shall remain pillow talk. She also shared with me her thoughts and happiness about being able to create this session, in this way. Her true happiness made the whole thing even better. I am so glad I am not the only one who gets nervous and then is so happy getting it right with a “gurl” on the table.
It was perfect to come... to slowly with friendly no pressure conversation, a glass of water; somehow my mouth was dry with the breathing perhaps?
I slid back into my clothes, rose scent still on and melted my way back to my car and with happy playbacks and general feeling of well being and a major case of the happies.
I was halfway down the freeway before I realized I left all my sparkly jewelries… sounds like a good excuse to go back that way.
ANANDA’s own Template: (Synopsis in Brief)
Why her? How did I pick this provider?
So many reasons - her website has been a favorite of mine for years, the ferns, so many ferns… well recommended by several of my all time favorite clients, her reviews, meeting her in passing at professional development functions
Would/Will I come back as a client?
Yes
Would/will I Refer My Favorite Clients?
Yes, already did, but now even more so
Would/will I refer my poly-Partners?
Yes, esp one in particular
Would/will I refer my female friends?
Yes
What is the overall Flavor/feel of this experience?
Conscious presence, beauty, holistic, aesthetic intelligence and embodied sensually… and Fun!
Was it worth the money, time and Travel?
YES
What does this person offer that sets them apart/defines them?
I
really enjoyed being with a whole person. Even though our time and worlds
overlapped for only a couple sweet hours, It felt amazing to be with someone
that I could have talked about any number of things with and who has a wide
range of interests, her work yes, but also a home life, a love of learning and
a love of critters.
Logistics:
Her Screening Process:
Smooth for me, I have references now, and she has met me.
Her Preferred communication for set up:
Her Preferred communication for day of session:
Email for logistics then talk in as nearing studio.
Communication (response time/ clarity):
Stellar, warm and friendly
Cloak and dagger rating:
Very clear and Easy to follow - park and talk in.
Travel time to get There:
for me, even though I allowed MUCH more time than my two previous encounters… 2.5 hours from home to her studio.
Travel time to get home:
2+ … my total travel time this day ended up being around 7 ish hours…. I stop watched it from starting car in my driveway to driveway and parked.
Distance Travelled round trip:
60 ish? I didn’t track that properly - Graham to Cap Hill ish.
Was it worth the time and distance?
YES, AND I think I will start scheduling morning appointments instead of afternoon.
Was it a Good value for the service/donation Ratio?
Yes. Her rate is a comfortable service-professional with skill and training rate.
Ananda’s Template: The Female Version
About the Venue:
Lovely and WARM… both in appearance and actual temperature… comfy!
Adjectives:
Clean, open, safe, wonderful flow, pretty but not too girly, set up well for all types of encounters to flow and not be intimidating.
Is it pretty
YES
Is it warm enough
YES YES
does it smell good
Clean, no overpowering fragrance
Shower
Yes, clean and comfy and nice window lite.
Music/sound
Yes, background pleasant and adding to overall ambience
All five senses?
YES
About the Session:
Welcoming ritual
Hug and Welcome,
Refreshments
Tea, Tequila or Water to soften the i5 landing. Grapes :)
Aftercare
Friendly sit on the table Hug, chitchat, water and gentle reconnect with the world talking as I came to
Session length - generous/shy/right on the dot?
Generous - I was late - (traffic gods) and as she happened to be able to, she courteousy and gently offered the complete time - and it was VERY much appreciated. We had booked two hours and I was so so glad for the grace to enjoy and linger. I WAS very grateful she asked before extending, to make sure I could stay without stress.
Yoni confidence
Gentle and tentative at first, then …. playful and creative
Timing
Lovely. REALLY full body and deep relax first (which I needed) then slow build up and move toward “center”
Patience
YES. I never felt rushed or expected to perform or stage a reaction
Build-up
Yum
Nurturing/Racey
Yes, Really yes to both. Pretty lace to unwrap from, comforting AND sensual touch all at once.
About the Practitioner
Adjectives:
Whole, healthy, present, fun, smart, real, approachable and passionate
Warmth
YES… much warmth.
Friendliness
Yes, felt genuine, not phony make friendly - just real and open.
Putting at easy-ness
So much so especially with me coming of that drive. Tequila was perfect.
Comfort with women: (YES bring it, OH goody - a girl!, well I can, somewhere tween?)
Shy at first, perhaps a little hesitant but not standoffish or tentative … then … FUN! this is FUN is what came through as the session continued. Especially on the flip.
Would/Will I refer my female friends here?
YEs
no reservations - none at all, my female civvie friends would feel right at home
would buy them gift certificates
yep
maybe just men-friends
them too :)
As a Provider: For my clients:
Would I send my clients here? (My good clients, not clients I haven't seen and just can't fit in, but my favorite clients)
Absolutely - both for fun and variety and if I were ever unable to work for health reasons or travel I would whole heartedly send people her way.
Would I put my name to their session quality? (yes/no/depends on the client’s needs/wants)
Yes. I would put my name on the line for her work.
Is is safe
YES
Is it clean
YES
Is She genuine?
YES - perfectly within the spectrum of the session, not using session for her own emotional needs, but really real within the scope of studio time. this is a compliment just hard to put words to.
Healer vs Playmate vibe
no vs. she is all that
Would I spend my clients money there?
yep. if a client gave me a budget to surprise him/her with I would.
How does she talk about Her clients?
We didn’t really - about scheduling and work space but not about specific clients - she stayed focused on my time.
Is she ethical?
Yes. and Caring, ethical in wanting her clients to have what they want and need in a professional, structured and fun way.
Do I have any behind the scenes ick/weird feeling (s) ?
none at all.
As a Provider - From Practitioner to Practitioner
From - let’s talk shop - to it’s all about me on the table
Gentle and friendly talk about our work world and things we would like to see for providers, brainstormed a couple fun ideas modeled after Yakima Valley Wine Tour passport, friendly conversation about work in passing, mutually engaged in with no stress.
Would I duo with this person? (I would be honored, on a lark, it would be magic…..)
would LOVE to duo!
Special training/skill-set -(medical/massage/psychology background)
Education
I didn’t ask specifics, but the smart, brainy and still sexy combination was fun. Reminds me of Deanna Troi - all the curves and the brains and ability to lead conversation or …
As a Poly Partner
Would I send “my” men (my personal sweeties/beloveds) there?
If I can join
wouldn’t need to to supervise, but would be fun
No Reservations - Completely Comfy Sending
yes - this
I would buy them gift certificates
yep
Through the Men’s Lens: Review Format
Hybrid Template:
The Boy Version (Borrowed from the Local Boards /Review Sites)
Service/Session Type: 120 minute fbst table time
Service Length: 120 minute
LOCATION: Private incall Cap Hill ish area
DATE: November 19th
NAME: Tanuki
INCALL/OUTCALL: in call
AGENCY OR INDY: indie
ACCURATE PICTURE: yes
AGE: ? mine ish?
PERSONALITY: comfy, smart, sexy, friendly and patient - exuberantly patient
RACE: Caucasian
BODY TYPE: comfy curvy fit
WEIGHT: clueless
HEIGHT: clueless
BUST: shit. forgot to pay attention to demographics - comfy and soft
WAIST: yes!
HIPS: yes she has hips and a cute little butt - that I noticed :)
HAIR: jealous. want hair that long and thick…
EYES: stunning, deep and melteeinto-ee
FEET: yep
SKIN TONE:lovely - creamy
TRIMMING:wasn’t paying attention beyond the pretty lacy
TATTOOS: ?
SCARS:?
PIERCINGS: hmm I thought I paid better attention - was distracted by the hair
MOLES:?
BIRTHMARKS:?
CLOTHES: relaxed comfy dressy casual skirt and then pretty pretty lace underneath
GLASSES: n/a
MOANER OR A SCREAMER: lovely whisperee breathee comms during table time
ENERGY LEVEL DURING THE SESSION: patient AND intense
MULTI SHOTS DURING THE HOUR: n/a I was in rolling thunder not pez dispenser mode
ACCEPTS FRENCH: n/a
SMOKES: n/a
DRINKS: shared a small toast to getting off… i5
KISSES: n/a - didn’t ask
FRENCH: n/a
GREEK: n/a
RUSSIAN: I am not equipped to receive but am sure she is to give
DO’s or DON’T’s: be polite and a decent human being and communicate openly - she really wants to know
WEB-SITE:http://www.spacetimetravels.info/
SCREENING PROCESS: email her for info
EMAIL: Please visit her site for contact information
PHONE: given date of session to talk in
RATES: this session - custom length – my freewill donation $360 plus tip
RECOMMEND:absolutely
COMMENTS: see narrative
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