Sex and Our Society

Sex and Our Society

While our entertainment, advertising and news media are flooded with images of blatant sexuality, in reality most people discover very little support for genuine sexuality and sensuality and expression of the whole of one's sexual desires and appetites. There are so many mixed, skewed and false messages on TV/radio about what sexuality looks like and who is SEXY. It is no wonder people are confused about what they feel or why they feel it. Many people believe they aren't normal, when in fact they are responding in healthy sexual ways, or when their body doesn't react the way they think it should, when they are progressing along a perfectly natural sexual response pattern.
An example of how the media skews things is in judging a woman's sexuality on how she dresses. Clothing and cosmetics which appear provocative, do not provide an accurate picture of how the woman is feeling. She may appear incredibly sexually inviting (which she likely knows) but this is not always an indication of whether or not she is experiencing a sexual sensation or desire. Confusion over this is often sited in cases of date rape. While there are men who deliberately force their sexuality on another person, it is truly tragic that many cases now labeled as rape are likely confusion over how sexuality is expressed. Both genders have work to do in expressing their desires clearly and in respecting the desires of the man or women they are with. How someone looks and how sexual someone feels are not the same thing.
We are not often taught what real sexuality looks like, feels like or tastes like. So many of us bumble around reacting to what society has taught us sex is. My work helps people to cut through those misinterpretations and to know one's own true desires and recognize and relate to the essence of the desires of others.
We are often not taught or rather taught not to, discuss our sexuality honestly. We tone down or exaggerate what we are feeling to sooth fears our partner may feel. We go along with the flow in a group of people when the majority goes on and on about someone walking by, whether they are hot or not, even if our preferences may be different.
We are not taught that our sexuality exists independently of our relationship status. Our own unique sexual fingerprint is ours and ours alone. No one else's is exactly like ours and it is a relatively permanent part of who we are, much of it with us from birth. It will be with us always; whether we are single or involved/committed. The question becomes how closely and honestly will we look at our own pattern of loops and whorls.
We need to take ownership of our sexuality. If we are single, we usually feed ourselves and clothe ourselves. If we are married and our spouse is away, or unavailable or not interested in the food we like, we quite often still take care of our other basic needs. We golf with our golf buddies if our wife doesn't golf. We go on spa days with the girls if we share an interest that our husband doesn't. We eat sushi with a buddy from work if our lover is a meat and potatoes individual. Most of us, however put immense pressure on our relationship to provide for all of our sexual needs at all times. If that doesn't work, we believe we have two options; to leave, or to cheat. There are other ways to handle our sexuality without burying it or denying it.
We all need to learn how to empower ourselves sexually with grace and integrity. A classic book which addresses this is Open Marriage by Nena and George O'Neill. Originally published in 1972 it is still very relevant in today's world. This book eloquently explains the pitfalls of requiring our partner to provide for all of our needs and wants, and how to find other ways of meeting those needs with kindness and integrity. A more modern work which address specifically the sexual negotiation is The Ethical Slut (1997) by Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Lizt. This book can be hard to read because it challenges so many of our beliefs but it will make you think about what you want and how to get there.
We also need to learn to take responsibility for the fact that we CAN control the expression of our sexual desires. There are techniques which can accelerate, decelerate, maintain, contain and disperse our sexual energy. This is something that can be taught as the layers of conditioning telling us that these things are out of our control are peeled away.
Learning to live with our sexuality in a realistic way reduces the needs for crimes of passion based on jealousy, as well as feelings of hurt and inadequacy when our lover expresses an interest not solely focused on our being everything to them.
This involves having the skills, knowing ourselves, knowing those we are involved with, knowing how to communicate, negotiating our future relationships to include the full expression of our sexual needs, working as best we can within current relationships to express our sexual growth in a healthy way, and if we must end them to continue growing taking responsibility for this and moving on with tenderness.
We need skills to maintain our sexuality in a healthy, honest, considerate, kind and loving way with ourselves and those we are involved with.

Finding your Sexual Path With Integrity

My Professional Views on Marriage & Fidelity and finding your Sexual path with Integrity.


Currently, married persons are welcome to become patrons regardless of their spouses involvement or knowledge, but I do encourage all potential patrons to read this section so that we may communicate comfortably. Your marital status, should you disclose it, will be held in the highest confidence at all times.





I believe that honesty is very important to our well being. We must be honest with ourselves to take care of ourselves and to live fully. I believe that intentional dishonesty to others is, in a way, theft. If we tell somebody something we know is not completely true in order to keep them, to get them to agree to something (such as marriage) or to appease them, we have stolen from them the right to make an informed choice and to live the life they need to live to take care of themselves.


That said, I believe it is incredibly difficult in our society to always be honest with our spouses. There is a phenomenal amount of pressure on people to agree to monogamy if they want the other benefits of long term committed relationships such as marriage.


This is a difficult path to walk and most of us find we fall into some shade of gray. Many people dearly want to raise a family and share in the journey with a partner they love. Many people agree to give up significant portions of their sexuality to do this. Some can adhere to that for years, decades or the duration of a marriage. Some follow through but are unhappy, some find ways to be happy without that part of themselves, other find avenues for release and hope they don't get caught.


Society seems to want to make this black and white. If he really loved her he wouldn't want to (fill in the blank). Yet most people experience times in their lives when they discover that they truly do love their life partner and experience feelings out of congruence with the promises they've made.


I believe in striving for honesty to the best of our ability.


I also believe that, at times, honestly is not possible without losing such a great part of ourselves that life is not worth living.


We should not have to cut off our toes to make the glass slipper fit.


Some people cannot be honest and open with their sexuality without losing a spouse, alienating their children, jeopardizing their careers or perhaps even being made uncomfortable or asked to leave their house of worship. These are real risks. Each person has to ask themselves how they will handle times when they find themselves wanting or needing something that was not agreed to or would not be tolerated in their current circumstances.


So what does a person do when everything else in the marriage works, when they value everything they have and just have this one need that their partner can't or won't meet?


Some people have an affair, which carries risks.


Some people leave, which costs them everything else they've worked for.


Some people sublimate their own needs and lose a little piece of themselves


Some people come to a professional to meet those needs.


I do not judge people who come to me by my standards. I understand the difficulties of making these choices and that it is not always the best shade of gray to risk complete honesty. Only the person in a situation can fully understand their best path.
My personal path is to:


Be as honest as possible when entering any new situation


Negotiate ways to communicate which allow for changing circumstances


Solicit and accept honesty from those I relate to


When I discover something that isn't meeting my needs to express it kindly


To avoid situations requiring me to be less than completely honest about my needs.


To me personally , honesty is of the highest priority. I have to be able to be fully myself to feel alive and I have structured my life to allow for this.
In My Practice:


I encourage people I work with to try to the best of their ability to look for a path that would allow for honesty.


I respect whichever choice has brought you to me.


I respect your right to disclose or not disclose your marital status to me.


I welcome the sharing of your feelings regarding your choices.


You may talk with me about this honestly, without risk of judgment.
I encourage the following:


If you can, talk with your spouse. Is there a way to meet these needs together? If you can, give them a chance to share this journey with you.


Try not to repeat the situation if you meet somebody new, try to make only obligations that you can meet without sacrificing those essential pieces of yourself.


Be as much a person of integrity as you can in other areas of your life.


Understand that there are risks if dishonesty is ever discovered. Can you afford to take them?


Accept the consequences of your choices without blaming others.


Be kind and compassionate towards your partner's honest responses, even if those responses don't meet your needs.




Beginning in March of 2020, I will be accepting only clients whose relationships status DO allow for open partaking of my services with in the construct of their current relationship formats. Everything I have written here is true, AND for me, working in the grey zone has taken a mordor like tone for me. I fully believe there is a need for people in all relationships to explore themselves and I value the concept of bodily autonomy. I also need to create for myself a world where my policy on no DADT (a poly term for don’t ask, don’t tell) follows through so that I can be even more my authentic and complete self and feel my work is of completely do no harm status.






It is my sincere hope that I will live long enough to see a time when people do not have to make such difficult and costly decisions to express their sensual nature.

Let's see if I can catch up, now that I have caught my breathezzzzz.............. Ananda's journey to the Winter of the Wierd...

So I left on January 18th for my first whole week-ish vacation (sanz pups and with travel) in more than 5/6 years.............  AND....



Well, that Jan. vacation didn't go as planned &  turned into sick leave instead of recreartionaling.

The nasty resppie virus going around our area took hold of my asthma and wrangled the poo out of it.

With my underlying asthma and autoimmune stuff, AND having been off nearly all my asthma and usual medications to do my every ten or twenty year recheck for allergies, blood work and all the things in December (I was trying to get all the good testing and stuff done before my insurance changed in January)


SO just before I left for vacation 


I did all the good patient things and all the testings and the lowest levels of meds and then we had the nasty-est since swine flue virus commus through-us area-us and popped in to see my asthma doc and get all the meds. IF I have to have a cold bug - at least I am on a scenic vacation whilst I do.


AND... the insurance and costco and doctor combined somehow managed to get me the wrong medicine at the wrong dosage and I wound up with unexpected medicine create cushings, edema and other side effects.... heart stuff, skin stuff, not able to sleep stuff and putting on enough water weight that same clothes I have packed for snow vacations for literally decades fit the day we got in the car and the next day did not - stretch marks no extra charge. I literally had to buy new clothing.


We figured out the medication glitch and changed that medication, but a second medication had switched brands and while we realized that in an attempt to save money the costco had done a less quantity of vials, more concentrated nebulizer fluid (thus the flight or flight and heart racing) the brand of oral steroids had changed... and what I thought were 10 mgs were 20..... thus the steroid sickness and swelling. I didn't read the label - usually white ones are 10 and pink ones are 20 so was taking double that, and essentially quadruple the breathing inny make lungs open.


Getting home and tapering off those medications, usually not a problem .... this volume and dosage was. Also, I was unable to walk which as everyone who know me knows I don't miss my 3-6 miles a day walking... but this bug settled into the lungs even with 3 antibios - to the point of having to wrap my rib cage and get codeine for the coughing to give me a little bit of a break.... so no solid and so no walking, and all the swelling and the  eating to settle the meds.... left me feeling not my chipper self. Nathan (primary partner) came down sick at the same time and so tween no sleep due to steroids and all the puppers we did not get much rest and had the dooziest of the time getting over this bug.


 I have never missed this much work in my entire life - and I have been working since I was 15. I haven't ever been so sick tween medicines and the bug itself that I literally couldn't get to my computer and sit up long enough to communicate to people.


I have had asthma and auto-immune things since my early 20s  and in over 25 years have never had anything hit me like this.


While we were in lovely Winthrop with all the stunning snow that we thought we would play in we took a few steps out of the car to see if we could do a gentle walk even with little air and I broke through the snow to my knee on my left side..... which at the time, on ridiculous amounts of prednisone I didn't feel...... the leg was however, very badly sprained, purple to the knee, swollen ....



Once home and back to doctors to fine tune meds and add antibiotic to see  if can get better faster they change the nebulizer fluidee type again and gave me help  calm down meds in different dosage.... and in sleepy state, I managed to create just a little brush fire in the house..... A little spilled rubbing alchool too close to the wood stove, down the woodo stove pipe - flash bang to the face and hair (all stil here) and managed to catch two dog crates on fire  (one eithe side of the wood stove)  I managed to throw one dog crate (80 lb pupper and all down the front stairs into the snow-ish) and get the other pup out of her crate with no dogs injured.... and on all the medication not feeling the burns on my hands (strangly enough in the shape of metal dog crates)



All of this at once, and then Feb 20th I tripped over one of my older puppy girls Ms. Chinook at 16+ .... not sure which one of us took longer to stand up but it knocked the wind out of me, Nathan was in the house a-bed while I was letting pups out in the morning and so I got back up and kept moving....


On the foot that was/is broken .... sigh.

SO now, I get to see an ortho doc, am not supposed to walk-on that foot, it's the other that was damaged in the snow and is sprained..... so I can't get into work unless I learn to teleport or for a few more days until they get this right one stabilized.


Again, with the not walk - the walking is what helps me get through the after effects of the prednisone and back to feeling myself.


Right now, I am on doctors orders to a -bed (not the playful type) through end of this weekend, recheck on Monday and then hopefully be released to play and frolic again. If not, one more week after and then I can come back even if it means wearing knee-pads... (hmm) to crawl up the stairs I mean .....



BUT the good news is now that those crazy making awake all nite but too groggy to focus on the screen meds are cleared and away I can Write again and catch up with people. My lungs are clear and good, my energy level is recoverying, by next week I will be my normal catch me if you can energy level, I just gotta get at least one of these legs to work well enough to get me up the stairs and get some muscle tone back.


Right now, I am definitely more cushy and cuddly than panther lean but that can be had fun with.


So I will be doing my best to catch up on all the REALLY late emails, screening requests and wonderfully compassionate texts, emails and get wells I have received.


AND my goal is to be back in studio by March 14th or March 21st at my regular times able to do all the fun and playful and tlc Ananda things.

Well, that vacation didn't go as planned..............

It's been exciting to say the least....

but tonight I need sleep so will post the most tomorrow after coffee and rest...

Vacation turned into unpaid sick leave... there were fires, and lung things and broken legs.....

stay tuned for the rest of the events and adventures and how and when I will be working my way back to studio!

THIS IS NOT the bed rest I signed up for!

:)

Well, that vacation didn't go as planned.... turned into sick leave instead of recreate..... sigh

This nasty resppie virus took hold of my asthma and is wrangling the poo out of it

I am still in here just very very sick - too sick to answer emails or watch tv kind of sick

I WILL BE BACK! just a matter of what day - and yes, I am seeing doctors!

I have had a little excitement also with a minor broken ish leg and fire involving my hands and face (but I am mostly still here and my face is still here - just sides of fingers sore as the "dickens" hehe) I should have a detailed blog and info up in next day or two to catch people up!) I plan to post blog with all the adventures here tomorrow :)

Starting back lite schedule 2/23/2017

Thursday 2/23/2017 1 ishy to 5/6 ishy

Friday 2/24/2017

Saturday and Sunday off for resting

Monday 2/27/2017 3-6 pm

Then back to "normal" lol - well my "surreality"

Ananda Hyburrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrnates til Monday 2/6/2016

Okay time to fess up - the doctors and my two footed pack-mates have me outnumbered... This little cold bug everyone else has has settled into pneumonia and I have been order to bed rest (the at- home pouty pjs and onsies bed rest) My sexiest outfit right now is my Pusheen onsie

So ........... this is not not the fun type of bed time stories for me through at least friday/Sat... monday if I do as I am told ) & I do believe people will chain me to the couch if I try to leave to get to studio.... and it appears people have hidden my car keys after I tried to work Saturday when I shouldn't have.... if I am not careful they will steal the lug nuts off my cars and then I shall have no nuts a'tall to keep me occupied.

IF we are already scheduled - please email me for details - don't just run away - I would NOT cancel without a direct communication to you - and if we are in planning stages of setting up a time, again please email so we can talk about when I can wiggle my way back in.... I'd rather be playing than laying in bed here!



Ananda as you all know her; The Maiden, MaDame, Muse: Embodiment of a Maiden, Heart of an earth-goddess & Passion of a Muse: ALL still here just on a one week delay – I expect to be back and rested by Monday Feb 6th or possibly Saturday …. If I can escape the watchful eye of my woofers and two footed pack-monitors

When I get back to my studio those of you who enjoy a mature woman who has lost none of her zest and zing will find me to have been returned to a stellar peak of enthusiasm, gracious pacing, physical stamina and a heart full of "make yourself at home away from home" comfort.

For this week in my metal cabin at home with my 20 woofers ........... Warm winter fires find me winterin' in a hybruuuuuurrrrrrnation layer of my "3-bears" incarnation (… this one is JUST right) for those of you who like that comfy fit on a firm matrix.

………..and for those of you who enjoy the jiggly puff softness… the breathing meds and steroids have me allllll a wiggle jiggle…. Everything still here – just a little squishier for the 2/3 weeks it will take to shed the water weight from that devil angel drug called prednisone. The good news: it keeps me breathing, the bad news is it makes meeeee a puffffy red faced cherub of a playmate.... or is that bad? It's kind of cute if you like the super extra cuddliness.

I am running slow on emails - due to sleepy meds for the cough and to make me not get into the car and try to come in and play.... I am a hard one to pin down lol.... well, to keep home anyway.... so if you email me or send a request, be patient by perhaps an extra 24 hours while I catch up and sit up long enough to compute



I will post my schedule as soon as I can be sure I can post times I can keep without cancelling last minute


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Half hour non studio meet and greet ($50 for non-line screening option)

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The Words that move me.......... Writings for Ananda from the People who visit my world....

The Words that move me.......... Writings for Ananda from the People who visit my world....




When people wanted to learn a little bit about me before meeting, I used to happily direct them to my "reviews" my on line resume' on the local boards.




With the current politics and reviews becoming something of a "charge" or "chargeable" topic ... I find myself requesting testimonials that I can post here or on my website as a way for people to get to know a little bit about me before meeting.


This format isn't as "3rd party objective" as reviews.... but you have my word that while anonymity is protected.. and here, on this blog, some of the juicier details are omitted ... nothing has been added or taken out of context from the original writings by people who have visited my world and found value in time spent, solace from sensual wounds, fulfillment of needs perhaps not even recognized, expansion of their horizons, sanctuary from their mundane lives ..... people who have found that my signature, my tag line, my email quote are not "just words"....










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Live in Joy
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Ananda Healer









10/14/2016 (written directly as a testimonial for to A)






To Any Interested Party: I first met Ananda about three and a half years ago, after responding to her " Afternoons With Ananda " ad on Backpage. I was actually delighted to be accepted through her, rather vigorous , screening process. It was well worth the effort. Some of the adjectives which come to mind when describing Ananda are, gorgeous, well organized, caring,passionate, light hearted, extremely erotic and fun. When we first met she told me " I want everything to be perfect ". My thought was " that's easy to say ". It was the last cynical thought I had about Ananda. She really does want everything to be perfect and she is very good at it. Her studio, while not fancy, is warm and inviting. It is perfectly equipped for a lovely, erotic interlude. It did not take me long to realize that I had had the the very good luck to have found a genuine, loving, erotic woman who loved her work. She is the "Real Thing ". With that in mind I took the huge risk ( in my mind ) of asking her to introduce me to Tantra, which was on her rather extensive menu. The results have been an extraordinarily rewarding learning experience. Together we have reached and maintained levels of sensuality which I could never have imagined possible. I consider my association with Ananda to be one of the best possible parts of a pretty good life. I often wonder what I did to deserve such a friendship and such joy. A Happy Customer




9/2016 (TER excerpt)





OK People, this woman will make you forget this is a service. On time and very welcoming, I was greeted at the door with a sensual hug like we had know each other for years. She takes a genuine interest your needs when communicated. A very clean, and erotic studio. After a quick shower, Ananda tended to my needs. Not pushy and very open. She even asked what would be a good temperature for the session before my arrival! Give this woman your attention.



The Juicy Details (abbreviated)


I arrived at her studio at the predetermined time and texted her my arrival. A prompt text back and within five short minutes I was greeted at the door by a woman in thigh-high stockings and a soft, silky halter dress. This was our second session together. A sensual hug was exchanged and I was offered a shower to expedite the removal of the 1+hrs road grime and stress from my body which I readily accepted. I was offered a choice of robes to wear or not wear. I explained to her what I needed for the day (details omitted by A)



As good as this felt she is very punctual and asked if we should move ourselves form the main part of the studio to the bed chamber area. This is a very erotic place with photos on the wall of naked bodies and a netted four post bed. After a quick drink of water with lemon I seized a moment of (details omitted by A) She pushed through my mental block when I was ready and brought me to the most earth shattering orgasms I had ever had! She gave excellent aftercare and there was no rush to leave. A truly mind blowing experience.
Ladies and gentlemen, give this wonderful woman your time and attention. You will not regret it!














7/2016 (excerpt from TNA)


It was almost 3 years ago that I first met Ananda and she has been in my rotation ever since. Along the way I have tried many of her menu items from her basic "bread and butter, her "third base make out", lunch out followed by her "beyond GFE" and several combinations. Recently I thought I might be ready for her basic "tantra". I have enjoyed the hobby for several years and have discovered what I really like most is the time spent with a provider who knows and loves what she does. Ananda certainly meets this requirement.






As I ( and others) have written Ananda is very special. Her studio is wonderful and I continue discover new and very erotic art. She is a beautiful, mature highly skilled provider who has all the curves in the places you would want; see on her web page gallery.






6/25/2016


As I ( and others) have written Ananda is very special. Her studio is wonderful and I continue discover new and very erotic art. She is a beautiful, mature highly skilled provider who has all the curves in the places you would want; see on her web page gallery.





This review is a bit late, but she provides such an amazing experience that I wanted to make sure people are aware. She can take even the most nervous newbie and make him forget that this isn't the end result of the best date ever.


She answered the door and greeted me immediately with a warm, sincere hug. Immediately giving a comfortable, easy going vibe. We had a light, fun conversation about what we wanted to have happen. I cleaned up and we started on the massage table. She gives a VERY high quality massage, easily a professional quality. It was not long before the massage turned into a reminder of why I was there.

I truly felt like I was on the better end of a date. Her touch is very sensual and she does a great job of making seemingly routine things extraordinarily erotic. I would strongly encourage anyone to see her.






6/24/2016 (excerpt from TNA)





After my first meeting with Ananda I consulted with her and I decided to go for her Lomi Lomi massage. Now, as a disclaimer, this massage is a healing massage. There is power in it and energy flows on many different levels and emotional releases can occur and each individual's experience with it may differ, I will give you my experience.


Once I arrived at the location I was stunned again by how beautiful Ananda is. She greeted me at the door in a Hawaiian outfit that looked amazing. We sat and talked for a moment about what to expect with the Lomi Lomi, this is not one where you will get “Full service” After a quick shower I was instructed on what to wear, a simple Hawaiian shawl for men. I dressed and laid down on the massage table face down as Ananda got the music playing and dimmed the lights. First she started with slow circular motions up and down my back. These motions made me feel as though I was weightless in the water, letting the waves move me around effortlessly. This continued for a while until she slowly pulled the cover off of my body. This felt like the water was slowly releasing me from its grip.


There was a pause, and you could feel the energy level changing and Ananda began to rub my body again using forearms and her breasts. The technique she used made it feel as though I was receiving kisses all over my body where ever her body touched. At a few points she would kiss my body, or press her mouth on it and hum, and it was electric the energy that came out of it.


Then she started to rub my back with a sugar scrub and I can say that I now know how the beach feels when warm waves caress the shores. It was amazing! All of this was done on my back. When I rolled over it got even better.


She started with the top of my head and I was astounded at how erotic and sensual the energy in the room was. As she stepped up to my chest I glanced over and saw that she was indeed naked at this time, and she has such an amazing figure. She then performed many of the same rubs on my chest that she did on my back. It was teasing and filling at the same time. (details omitted here by ananda) After, we cuddled and talked for a little bit, but the two hours flew by. I could see that she was tired, she literally poured herself into the work she did. She did not pressure me for time and instead recommended I take another shower to get the sugar scrub off.

While this review may seem complete, I actually left out the warm towels, the soft fur, and many other things that I will continue to cherish. I left there charged, with more energy than I had in weeks. Thank you Ananda for an amazing experience.


5/13/2016 (excerpt from TNA) First Time Session with a True Seeker


This is the first time I have ever seen a provider. I was nervous and unsure what to do but Ananda was patient with me and at no time did I feel pressured or uncomfortable. With some difficulties due to traffic our initial meeting or verification was only a few minutes long but she did provide some ice water with lemons in it and gave a little tour of her facility. We set up an appointment the following day and traffic was much kinder. It was well worth it. Ananda greeted me wearing a tight salmon colored sun dress that looked amazing on her. She gave a better tour of her facility and then asked if I would like to take of my shoes and get comfortable.





After removing my shoes Ananda asked if I would like wine or water, the water that she provided was nice and icy with a slice of lemon in it. Next she asked if I would like to freshen up a little and the escorted me into the bathroom where she went over her different soaps I could use as well as the wrapped, single use tooth brushes she supplies and mouth wash she has available. She showed me a series of robes she has available and told me to come out when I was ready dressed or undressed however I like. Her area is a clothing optional zone she explained, just feel like you can be yourself. She then set the water to warm and closed the door. I looked at her dizzying array of soaps ranging from none scented to one with mint in it. I used the peppermint soap that she had and found it left a pleasant tingle where it touched. After drying of and brushing my teeth again I put on a nice silk robe that made me feel like a Japanese emperor.





When I opened the door she greeted me and led me to a comfortable reclining chair where we began talking about our expectations. She made it so comfortable and asked probing questions to explore our time together. Some of the questions she asked were what is a feeling that I would wish would go on forever. What touch do I love receiving and what touch do I love to give as well. Many of her responses helped me to fine tune my thoughts and intentions of wanting to learn to receive more. As she sat down on the couch between my legs (...) her legs were very distracting in a good way. As we conversed she went from sitting straight up, wither her hand tentatively on my leg to resting her shoulder on my arm while running her fingers along my chest. As the heat grew I slipped off the robe as her hands stroked my chest and legs, sleekly skidding closer until she (...) while looking into my eyes. That is one thing that strikes me with this, during the whole time she kept amazing eye contact and would purr with pleasure when she rashly liked something. The only time she did not keep eye contact was when I gently ran my fingers through her hair, softly caressing her face. Then she would slowly close her eyes and positively melt into the touch. As she explained, it is one way that she loves to be touched.


The conversation was riveting and her ideas and thoughts on topics ranging from social prejudice to quirky geek knowledge was well formed and presented. The time was literally flying by and when she looked at the clock she and I were both astonished to find how much time had passed. Noticing the hour she asked if I wanted some table time which I desperately wanted if only to work a knot out of my shoulder. As we went to the table time seemed to slow as she lifted her sun dress over her head revealing her amazing body. I was distracted and reached out to her and she folded into my arms and allowed me to kiss her (...). It took a lot of control to break away from her and to have her start to work on my back. I laid face down so I would not be so distracted and our vibrant conversation continued as she continued her ministrations to my body. While her conversational skills are definitely engaging, it is on the table that she really shines. She feels the energy that flows through your body, seeks out the places it is knotted and releases the energy, not only gently, but seductively. (details omitted by Ananda in this venue) I Finally turned over, As I turned over I was pleased to see that she did not go immediately to my obvious desire, but instead worked my chest, legs and arms, before coming up onto the table with me, sliding her legs under mine and sliding close. (... details excerpted by A.. ) She had asked earlier if I wanted a release in this session, and I was not sure if I did so we agreed to play it by ear. When she asked again if I wanted a release, to my surprise I told her no, I wanted to keep all of this sexual and sensual energy inside. (juicy and oily details omitted) As she was doing this she looked up at the time and a shocked look crossed her face and she said we only had 5 or 10 more minutes and would I like to have a hot towel or a shower. I looked at the time and saw that we were already over our agreed upon 90 minutes. She said she did not mind, but she would not have time to shower with me if I chose to shower. I opted for the hot towels in order to keep the conversation going. Now one thing you need to realize, the conversation was great, it was riveting and held true to the old fashioned meaning of intercourse, but it was also punctuated by long moans and sighs as please took away both of our abilities to talk from time to time. As she climbed off me I was able to once again appreciate how great of a body she has. She used three or four towels that were nice and warm to gently wipe down my body. As I stood up she followed and we continued to talk as I dressed and she put on a robe, though she did make it a point to show a lot of leg in it looking like to cover to show girls (I am a leg man after all.) We hugged and bid farewell until the next time. I came with a need to receive, to be filled, and Ananda was just what the doctor ordered. We did not have sex, but that was not appropriate for this session, we had verbal intercourse, connection, and my body felt well appreciated and honored. I will definitely be going back.








6/2016 (Sensual Touch Rev excerpt )





Ananda is an extremely genuine person. I set up an appointment through 411.com which I find to be a really great way to screen. Also I find the providers on their to be extremely professional with real incalls (not hotels). Once prescreened Ananda offers an amazing assortment of choices for services offered from her website. My time with her was extremely informative. She has an extremely good knowledge base about all things sensual/sexual. She offers intimacy coaching which was what I was interested in. For our first encounter she really got to know what I was hoping to achieve with future visits. Then she gave an incredible sensual massage that left me satisfied beyond belief. It was the best sensual massage I've ever had. She is very tuned into where you are at sexually. I highly recommend anyone seeking a genuine and highly talented woman. I believe she truly enjoys what she does. Also her in call is very clean, professional with showers available. Highly recommend.








5/2016 (excerpt from TNA)





I've met with Ananda twice in the last few weeks. The last meeting was on date above.





Setup was easy and professional. Process allowed for type of session, date & time requested, as well as any special needs/thoughts. Received prompt confirmation & coordination of session. Since I arranged meetings several days in the future, Ananda stayed in touch via e-mail (a nice personal touch). Day of meeting received comprehensive info for meeting & easy to follow directions (again a nice personal touch & very professional - she even asked what I would like to have to drink).





Ananda greeted me at the door with warm smile, beautiful blue eyes, hugs & kisses. Since the initial meeting was my first at her incall, she gave me a tour & explained/pointed out amenities. Her incall is warm, inviting and well appointed. She has given thought to creating a comfortable relaxing environment.


Coupled with Ananda's conversation & sensuality, felt comfortable & at ease.





Ananda stayed connected with me throughout and made me feel that her time with me was special and personalized. She is an excellent listener, both to your words & your body. She has the ability to translate that into actions that make you feel totally as one.





She truly makes you feel that for the time you are with her, you are the center of her universe and she is focused only on you & lets your actions/reactions guide her's. Not a "scripted" going through the motions thing. She makes you feel that it is a very personalized experience for her as well as you.





Ananda's touch is amazing. Her penetrating blue eyes are amazing. Touching her soft sensual curves is amazing.





Ananda is AMAZING!!!